A few days ago I was at a graduates luncheon in one of our churches and I had a great time with those graduates. It was a small intimate gathering; and that luncheon and my conversation with some of the graduates got me thinking about transitions. Transitions in life, at work, in ministry, and in relationships.

Transitions are always an exciting time. It could be full of promise and potential. The same promise though brings with it the possibility of the season of transition as being challenging and scary. It could also be dangerous, and we could lose our anchor.

So how do we handle transitions when they come? How do we not lose our bearings and lose our way in the midst of the changes we are about to experience? Here are some truths I have learned to hold on to in times of transition and change, whether exciting, difficult, or promising.

Calling. The reality and truth of my calling comes from a higher source. It is never dependent simply on my job title, my position, or my boss. A lot of these things could change, placement will one day be different, but the fact of the matter is, the calling is from God. We need to have a sense of a higher calling. One that is beyond the natural appointment or assignment we are given. Once we understand this, transitions will be easier to navigate, and more enjoyable to experience.

Relationships. The key relationships we have in life will always be the same, no matter what transitions we face. So when times of transition come, we have to be doubly careful in managing these relationships, taking care of them. We have to ensure that we don’t leave these people hanging. The important relationships in life need to be cared for and nurtured in every season, more so in times of transition. The major components of our priority do not change no matter what transitions we face.

Honor. At the end of the day, there is always a way to live life where we bring honor to God. In times of transition, this is the singular yardstick by which we can measure our life. Do we decide things, do we relate with others, do we live life in a way that honors God? Does the transition we face, with all its questions and uncertainty, cause us to live honorable lives or not? In all these, one goal should remain: Honor God.

Yes, transitions could be difficult and challenging. But if we hold on to these truths and live by them, we can trust our transitions will be exciting and promising. As they always should be.